10 Questions you should ask yourself before you think of Marrying Someone

Questions at HAND

You walk down the aisle in an expensive wedding dress inside a historic church renovated for your special day, and as you take those slow steps, the orchestra plays a song that played in that night that you and your groom first danced. People standing and looking at you, all smiles in agreement to the two of you finally taking those precious vows, and as you look ahead you see him looking at you and he looks so handsome in his black tux, but then, memory flashes of your childhood sweetheart and suddenly you’re wishing that your groom was someone else. Oh cruel reality. Should you run? Or should you stay and just live with it?

Marriage is a huge step and must not be taken lightly. Save yourself from going through huge expenses and effort, then just finding yourself as a runaway groom or bride.

Guide yourself with 10 questions before you tie the big knot.

· Are you ready to not be single for as long as you live?

· Yes you may have fallen in love with each other

but do want the same things? Do you share the same goals? Is what you have

for the long run?

· Do you want to wake up with her/him beside you for the rest of your life?

· You know each other’s imperfections, but can you live with it?

· Are you sure you didn’t just settle?

· You know each other’s wants, are you willing to provide them to each other

for life?

· Is your love pure and unconditional to last you both a lifetime?

· Do you feel it in your gut that you’re making the right choice?

· Are you positively sure that there’s no one else out there for you?

· And last but not the least… ARE YOU SURE YOU’RE THE MARRYING TYPE?

If you passed this questions with flying colors then you’re on your way to a healthy married life, but if not, let’s just be happy with the thought that you don’t have to go through the trouble of preparation just to find yourself in cold feet and wedding gone sour.