Instead of going through the same procedure in which the priest usually does all the talking, vows are actually the ones that make the moment more personalized. It’s like imparting your own version of what marriage is and how that person who you’re going to spend forever with means to you. And yes, in your own words and not in the words of a friend who you think is good in writing.

It doesn’t have to be that complicated, it just has to come from the heart, a place where it is real and heartfelt. Easier said than done I know, but we’ll try to find ways in making it really easy for you.

Its all about internalizing, and internalizing comes with thoughts. So in your thoughts will come out the things that really matter to you and the things that make her matter to you. So here are the thoughts that will help you internalize before writing your vows.

Sample Vow:

Sample Wedding Vow

Vow Internalization Guide:

• What are you to him/her and what does he/she make you feel about yourself when you’re around him/her?

-knowing this may jump start your vow in making the moment because this entails

The very crucial gist of the VOW and it’s “your perception of the two of you

together”

• Affirmation of your certainty “Rest assured forever in thy arms” keep that in mind and it will cultivate you to write something significant of that assurance and security.

• Love and what you make of it repeat and reside in a place of LOVE peace and quiet. Think and feel love and make your own version of it.

- Think of that love, and embrace it in thought and in those thoughts, convert them to words.

Just always remember that it doesn’t really have to be profound, as long as it came from you and your words reflect yourself, it’ll be significant to your significant other automatically.